Young Beautiful Mrs. Andeline Yinka Akumiah Dies

I am sure you are very much heart broken as I am at the moment when you take a look at this obituary. No doubt this is a very pretty young lady who death has laid the icy hands on.

There is this adage that says when you see the beard of your friend on fire, better put a bucket of water by your side just in case you are the next in line. 

Definitely death is not a sweet thing for both the young and the old but it's a journey we must all take one day and it is the common enemy of humanity. In the book of Revelation we are promised that the last enemy of man that will be defeated is death.

I know alot of people will be curious to know what killed her but I don't think it's necessary for me to delve into that as a respect to the dead and the family. It is for them only to know and to keep, what is more important is to give her a good final farewell as she departs the face of this Earth.

Now, there are few reasons why I write most often. Some of which includes to inform, educate, enlighten, caution, have fun and to expose. My reason for writing today however is to draw our attention to death at young ages. 

Both the old and young dies, the tall or short, black or white, child or adult, boy or girl, man or woman etc everybody will taste death one day. 

Someone contacted me backdoor and asked what killed her, I just said she fell sick and died but I was quick to add to my statement that we all have an appointment with death one day and this is something I want us all to think about as we read this article. 

The main reason I am putting this together is especially for our dear ladies who are not married. What strikes me about this obituary is that she is a Messrs. This is somebody's wife who is dead and I know herself, family, friends and husband do not wish so but it has happened. 

As much as we mourn her death, there are some few lessons I want our unmarried sisters to learn from so they do not rush themselves too much in life thinking that marriage is their ultimate achievement because this is someone who achieved their dream but is gone. 

She did not die because of marriage, not at all but I want you to know that what you are fighting for in life someone has achieved it already but they are dead therefore I think what is more important is not what you are pursuing in life but where you will end up eventually when you die.

 This is my main objective for my long talk, permit me please. Her death though very unfortunate and heartbreaking is a fine case study for our young women to know that marriage is not the end of the road because there is more to life than just getting married.

If I give every young lady reader an option to get married and die after or live single and live long which one will they prefer? I know many will prefer to be single and be alive. Yes, that tells you that life is more important so our ladies should take their time and stop blaming God if they are getting old but not getting married. 

If you are single and God asks you to take this lady's place right now, you would say NO. So why are our young ladies rushing helter scelter as though if they have not married then it means their life is over or they become a disgrace to society? Who put that thinking in the minds of our youths of today?

 Unfortunate! May her beautiful soul rest in peace.  When the time of death arrives it's the case of ashes for beauty instead. When married women are dying why should the single fret? Which one will you choose, death or singleness? Being single is not a death warrant, here is someone who is obviously married but dead. What we should all ultimately seek is a good relationship with our maker so that we have good resting place for our soul for it is not marriage that will determine whether you will go to heaven or hell.

May her soul once again Rest In Perfect Peace and my condolences to her family and friends. Death is indeed very wicked.